@vkc Serious question: when you say you have a diligent mod team, are the proactive or just really good at reactive moderation?
Because a key wrinkle I keep coming across is that I am looking for *proactive* moderation when I ask for filtering features. Very little of what irritates me is crossing the line to where I would get a mod involved - it's just a LOT of little irritating things that add up quickly, and I fear not many understand this.