Well, last night's thread sure was (and continues to be) a wild ride.
I'll be blunt here: please believe me that I'm experiencing problems frequently enough to make me not like this place. And **please** try to understand how a repeated onslaught of suggestions on how I myself need to solve those problems doesn't give me much solace.
If I have to be responsible for managing this with whatever tools or strategies you throw at me just to be here happily, that's not something I need in my life.
Please feel free to tell me to pound sand. I don't need to be here, and "successful YouTubers" is hardly a marginalized group.
But also understand that I *want* to be here. I'm not leveraging this platform to spread my videos, I'm here to offer a way for people to connect with me. And I'm here to have fun.
At this point I need to self-censor a /lot/ to keep it fun. I'll try that for a while, but it's a damn shame I need to do it.
@TechConnectify As someone with a similar number of followers, I’ve been using the same technique I used on Twitter for the ~16 years I was there: carefully managing my follow list, muting people who bother me, and blocking jerks. Overcoming the feeling that I “shouldn’t” do so much muting/blocking (and overcoming the urge to reply to people I should really be muting or blocking) was key to my Twitter happiness. Oh, and I use a good third-party client app, of course: Twitterrific then, Ivory now
@siracusa This is something I'm just going to disagree with then. I never had to engage in much muting or blocking at all on Twitter.
Now I don't think I had the following that you did on Twitter, but it was bigger than the following I have here.
The automated filtering that Twitter did worked very well for me. And maybe some of my experience comes from the fact that I only joined in 2018. It was probably a lot better then than it was in years prior.
But that's missing here.
@TechConnectify Yeah, being on Twitter since 2007 and never using the first-party client definitely gave me a different experience. I built up my defenses and overall system over years and years. Again, worth it for me, but there’s probably no shortcut for it. If I had joined Twitter in 2018, boy, would things have been different for me!
@siracusa I guess what I'm getting at then is that Twitter did have that shortcut by 2018.
I don't think there's a reason that shortcut couldn't exist on this platform other than people generally are averse to any kind of automatic filtering or algorithms
@TechConnectify @siracusa my thought is that being averse to algorithms that prioritize engagement and ads might be healthy, but the techno-Luddite-ism here around algorithms of any kind is a sure way to guarantee that your social content-generation enterprise can never scale up or gain any traction with the wider public.