A lot of us who agree with you are just quiet. A lot of those who disagree with you are loud. There’s probably a large chunk in the middle who don’t even think about it, but since you’re talking about opt-in features, they’ll continue to not need to care.
tl;dr: Enough of the right people already agree with you. IMO you’re in a perfect spot to make big, positive, lasting changes for the benefit of all users. Wise devs should already be reaching out to you.